Children are a gift.  I would guess most people who have children would agree-- at least when they're holding their precious, healthy, newborn in their arms. Would any parent who loves their child ever say their child is NOT a gift?  We parents can SAY our children are gifts in our lives, but how much of our actions support that claim?  Really.  Ask yourself now.  When your child walks into the room do you smile? Why not?  Besides your spouse, is there any other person you would rather spend your time with?